An Open Letter to My Former Co Worker
You should be ashamed of yourself. As management, you were responsible for the overall atmosphere in your department. You abused your position.
I knew that you were prone to tantrums, to little fits of rage and throwing things. On the surface, however, you were funny. You joked and teased and goofed off. I thought that you had come around.
I bought it - hook, line and sinker. Until your entire department decided to tender their resignations. One of them handles the work of our best salesperson. You should have realized, dear sir, that messing with the "Polly Pocket Pit Bull" was not a wise choice.
Polly is extremely protective of her co-workers. Especially those that work without complaint. Gina is one of those people.
Once it was out in the open, your employees felt relief. They felt free enough to share it with me. I was horrified at the descriptions; it all happened under my nose! I work closely with your (former) department; how could I not see what they endured?
I had no idea how bad it was. It was not unlike an abusive marriage; emotional abuse leaves people with deeper scars than a fist ever could. Your former employees may need therapy.
I will gladly work nights and weekends to help them catch up on the paperwork that you refused to do. I will help them research; I will help them retrain. I will help them recover. I will not rest until they are all okay, until they are reassured of their abilities. Until they are convinced that they are, indeed, doing the job they were hired to do.
There is one bittersweet aspect of this change. In order to help this department on the road to recovery, someone was chosen to take your place. This person was taken from MY department. Someone who is gentle of spirit, kind of heart. Yet someone who will not settle for anything less than the best. Betty Boop will do an amazing job with the ashes you have left behind.
I am glad that you were fired. It should have happened a long time ago.
I knew that you were prone to tantrums, to little fits of rage and throwing things. On the surface, however, you were funny. You joked and teased and goofed off. I thought that you had come around.
I bought it - hook, line and sinker. Until your entire department decided to tender their resignations. One of them handles the work of our best salesperson. You should have realized, dear sir, that messing with the "Polly Pocket Pit Bull" was not a wise choice.
Polly is extremely protective of her co-workers. Especially those that work without complaint. Gina is one of those people.
Once it was out in the open, your employees felt relief. They felt free enough to share it with me. I was horrified at the descriptions; it all happened under my nose! I work closely with your (former) department; how could I not see what they endured?
I had no idea how bad it was. It was not unlike an abusive marriage; emotional abuse leaves people with deeper scars than a fist ever could. Your former employees may need therapy.
I will gladly work nights and weekends to help them catch up on the paperwork that you refused to do. I will help them research; I will help them retrain. I will help them recover. I will not rest until they are all okay, until they are reassured of their abilities. Until they are convinced that they are, indeed, doing the job they were hired to do.
There is one bittersweet aspect of this change. In order to help this department on the road to recovery, someone was chosen to take your place. This person was taken from MY department. Someone who is gentle of spirit, kind of heart. Yet someone who will not settle for anything less than the best. Betty Boop will do an amazing job with the ashes you have left behind.
I am glad that you were fired. It should have happened a long time ago.
14 Comments:
It is a very good thing that people who conduct themselves like that at work are discovered and then let go. The problem is why they were allowed to continue for as long as they were. It seems their group karma has just gotten a whole lot better!
Karma is SUH-WEEEET!
I love it that your Betty Boop is going to help repair those folks that Grumpy McSuck the co-worker screwed with.
JC
Kenju - I KNOW! He was Management for over 2 years!
Jen - Grumpy McSuck fits him perfectly. As do many other names not fit to print in this "family friendly" blog.
Well said - even if I don't know the person...sounds like you were more than generous and kind than you needed to be with this person. Be glad he's gone.
Well now. There are stories upon stories heaped here. The vastness of the suck is a good starting place.
Good luck to you and BB in the transition. Wow - there's a lot of work to do.
Whoever replaces this fool has the opportunity to build something really good. Once people get over all the initial turmoil, they shoulld be ready.
Good letter. I have known a coupl of guys like that.
Wow -- what a jerk. So glad that one's gone and everyone can breathe more easily. Cool of you all to pitch in!
As a lifelong white collar guy, this result doesn't happen enough. Glad he got the axe.
The healing has already started. I think you'll be surprised how quickly stuff snaps into place now that the S.O.B. is gone. Those remaining, including your lovable self, sound like a great staff.
That's an intense post, sister.
It's amazing how many people get away with being complete dicks.
I have taken so much shit lately at work I am a woman on the brink... can I plagarize your letter? changing the names to protect the innocent, of course...
except I have to substitute the I'm glad you were fired for I WISH you were fired...
Thanks all - today was incredibly calm.
PM- Absolutely. Edit as needed.
Wow. I don't know what happened there but it sure sounds bad, Renn. I've fortunately never had to work in an environment quite that bad.
As Mr. T would say...PITY THE FOOL
Isn't it amazing how one bad apple can seriously spoil a department? Of apples?
What's even more amazing is how long is takes upper management to catch on.....
Well said. Does every workplace have one of these?
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